tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3228097406565440868.post7669282110793207683..comments2023-04-03T10:09:24.433-05:00Comments on The world according to Michelle...: Bad DayMichellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02028150028001892070noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3228097406565440868.post-70935050382312568722011-01-27T08:54:03.807-06:002011-01-27T08:54:03.807-06:00Michelle, I did the same as you. It is completely ...Michelle, I did the same as you. It is completely normal to worry about depending on others quote on quote burdening them with your problems etc. I am too very dependent, I am a single mom even though I have a very understanding boyfriend I always would tell him that I was sorry I had to depend on him ect ect. As long as you have the right people in your life they should be more than happy to help you. You are about to embark on a very important journey and if anything, these people should be inspired by you. I know it's easier said than done but finally I swallowed my pride and let others help me. Plus once you do that you will heal faster and be able to become independent again in no time. If you try to do everything on your own your going to run into problems. I am here for you if you ever need to vent. I too have a bottle of Xanax lol.Robynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13501889961860024178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3228097406565440868.post-987817869654191542011-01-26T13:49:28.723-06:002011-01-26T13:49:28.723-06:00Hi - I saw your post on breast cancer forum that h...Hi - I saw your post on breast cancer forum that hotlinked to your blog, clicked it and here I am. I had a bad day, too.<br /><br />I had excisions and ultrasound and needle biopsies and guidewires and about a dozen mamms around the holidays.<br /> <br />First MRI was yesterday. First "can't control my heart rate and get it down" was last night. <br /><br />Whether this was a reaction to the MRI dye or my worry taking over my body, I do not know. <br /><br />I get it, the impulse to worry about missing your breasts. It's kind of all I can think about, as I am getting closer to deciding once and for all on PBM. I try to substitute that with being elated about the lack of heart pounding worry. It doesn't always work. I think about my husband, who is a champ, that I won't be 'me' anymore to him. But I have yet to read one post where a woman wished she hadn't done the PBM. To a person, they are all grateful for the relief and for the abatement of risk. <br />[wait for it...]<br />Right?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3228097406565440868.post-54606632632778088472011-01-25T22:10:49.355-06:002011-01-25T22:10:49.355-06:00I've worried a lot about the whole "being...I've worried a lot about the whole "being reliant on other people" thing, too. However, I've known a lot of people who've gone through these surgeries in their 20s, and the recovery is a LOT better than I would have expected. It seems like the younger you are (in most cases), the better and quicker the recovery.Kryshttp://eatthissoup.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com